The Spirit of Golf Beyond Earnings: Exploring The Friday Loop and Community

As the FedEx Cup Playoffs concluded last month, another exciting seasonal golf competition quietly wrapped up—one that isn’t driven by monetary gains but by camaraderie, community, and some quirky collectibles. The winner of this competition didn’t score an eight-figure payout, but rather received heartwarming high fives, hearty congratulations, and the promise of a unique commemorative item: a belt buckle that hasn’t even been manufactured yet.

The Essence of Golf Beyond Competition

Golf is often seen through the lens of professional earnings, but for many, the sport offers rewards that extend far beyond financial compensation. Players engage for the fresh air, exercise, and community spirit. These enthusiasts find joy not just in scoring goals but in building friendships and sharing experiences on the course. The thrill of beating friends often eclipses monetary victories—after all, it’s the memories forged that make golf truly special.

Meet Jeff Pelizzaro: Champion of Community Golf

Jeff Pelizzaro, a physical therapist by profession, is a testament to this philosophy. Co-founder of the golf-focused organization 18Strong, Pelizzaro’s journey into golf was delayed—growing up in St. Louis, he initially focused on soccer. It wasn’t until after college that he fell in love with the game. Joining forces with his business partner, Ryan McMullen, the two channeled their passion into a podcast that connects golf with fitness. Their discussions have opened doors to conversations on enhancing golf performance through physical wellness.

Promoting Participation Through Mandatory Golf Fridays

Pelizzaro’s outlook aligns with that of John Ashworth, the founder of Linksoul, who inspires golfers to prioritize time on the course. Ashworth’s Mandatory Golf Fridays at Goat Hill Park exemplify that notion, emphasizing the importance of dedicating time each week for personal well-being. Pelizzaro was inspired and created something similar: he rallied friends for golf outings at Ruth Park in St. Louis, dubbing it Mandatory Golf Fridays—until they discovered the name was trademarked by Linksoul.

The Birth of The Friday Loop

Opting for a new name, Pelizzaro and his friend Brian Daniels rebranded their gatherings as The Friday Loop. What began as a simple escape from daily routines quickly blossomed into a vibrant community event, especially following the disruptions caused by the Covid-19 pandemic. With attendance growing, newcomers of all ages and skill levels began showing up to enjoy the atmosphere and share in the laughter, turning their nine-hole outings into a tradition.

Competitive Spirit of The Chase for the Buckle

As the loop grew, Pelizzaro and Daniels formalized the Friday gatherings, securing tee times from 6 AM to 7 AM. In anticipation of the 2025 season, they introduced a friendly competition, The Chase for the Buckle. This 12-week handicapped event brought a competitive edge, with a whimsical prize: a unique belt buckle, inspired by their golfing adventures in Nashville, where belt buckles are just as commonplace as guitars.

Celebrating Community Through Competition

Two weeks ago, after a summer packed with friendship and fun, The Chase for the Buckle crowned its champion, John Mossotti, affectionately known as "Mossy." Entering the season with a 9 handicap, Mossy’s stellar performance caught the attention of fellow golfers, raising eyebrows with his exceptional play—prompting light-hearted whispers of potential sandbagging. Yet, as Pelizzaro pointed out, all in good fun, even champions sometimes draw scrutiny from their peers.

The Joy of Participation and Bragging Rights

While athletes like Tommy Fleetwood earn significant accolades in the pro circuit, Mossy’s win came with something arguably more valuable: bragging rights. The heart of The Friday Loop isn’t just about the competition or prizes—it’s about the camaraderie and fellowship that grows among participants. The connections made on the course often hold more value than any paycheck could offer. The communal atmosphere turns an ordinary day of golf into something extraordinary.

Looking Ahead: Golf Beyond the Season

As The Friday Loop concludes its season, Pelizzaro and his friends adamantly continue their informal gatherings, squeezing in rounds whenever possible before winter weather takes hold. The promise of shared moments on the links remains strong, showcasing that the spirit of golf—like the friendships fostered on the course—is truly unwavering.

Professional Golf vs. Community Golf

While stars in professional golf gear up for tournaments like the Ryder Cup, where lucrative prizes await, the real beauty of the game often lies in local experiences like The Friday Loop. The passion for golf is felt across all terrains and skill levels; whether you are competing for grand prizes or simply enjoying a day outdoors with friends, the fundamental joy derived from the game remains the same. As the seasons shift and the last putts are made, the community continues to thrive through shared experiences that transcend the monetary values often associated with sports.

In the end, it’s undeniable: golf, at the heart of it, encompasses much more than just a game. It brings people together, fosters lifelong friendships, and creates unforgettable memories, offering life lessons far beyond the scorecard. The Friday Loop stands as a heartfelt reminder that the essence of the game encourages us all to find joy, laughter, and connection out on the green.